Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

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Sure We Can

Many years ago this land now known as North America was virtually unknown to the Europeans. The Africans knew of and had even been here with the North, Central and South American natives. In fact Africans lived here as well. We have proof in our knowledge of the Olmec, the logs of Columbus and the journals others who ventured to the Americas. They saw Africans that were already here. When the Europeans came and decided to live here they brought evil in their ways and by way of disease that the native had never experienced. They also brought over here the infamous 'slave trade' and with no mercy they changed the fabric of life on this side of the planet. The slave trade spawned what we now call the Hispanics and Caribbean cultures. By bringing over the African element and with the Native Americans they were able to build the colonies up to a strength that would be able to fight and defeat Mother England. England owned the colonies and therefore taxed them as they wanted. The original 13 colonies put up with these taxes until rebels (less than 1 third of them) decide to refuse to pay there share of taxes. Eventually they began to fight the English using terrorism. They not only fought the English they also terrorized the colonist who didn't have a problem with England. They forced many to join their cause. After declaring their independence they eventually beat the British and came up with a constitution for what they called the Union or the United states of America. This constitution is the foundation of this country. They way it and it's government was set up was to make sure that no one or group could do to it what they did to England. They set it up so that it would remain fundamentally the same yet allow for changes that would come with time. It is a broad and flexible document allowing for change while holding this country's government in place. The founding fathers thought this over with much in mind concerning longevity. So they set up a Constitution-based federal republic with a strong democratic tradition. At that time they didn't any high regards for the African slaves. In fact some of them tried to make our position in life permanent.
Little did the so called founding fathers know that the progeny of their slaves would one day be able to read. Once we were able to read we would one day read and fully understand their fine Constitution. We would read and understand our way through schools and some of us would even become lawyers and eventually judges. Little did they know that a black man named Thurgood Marshall along with other lawyers would crack the constitutional code and bring to life the freedoms, liberties, and rights only enjoyed by Europeans. Little did they know that a black man whos father was murdered by racist white, who excelled in school but was told as a black child not to expect to gain much in life despite his intelligence, who landed in jail, who read and wrote down every word in the dictionary, who rose to lead many of his black people would become one of the greatest speakers in the world and a civil/human rights activist. Little did they know that this man Malcolm X would rise above their restraints and inspire, insight and ignite this nation! These same founding fathers did not know that Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. would lead some of the most successful boycotts and have the President and Attorney General pull this nation away from it's racist treatment of blacks. They had no idea that all of this and more would lead to this year, 2008 and this mighty nation of bigots, racist, and white supremacist would be seeing a black man with an African name on the verge of becoming Chief Executive and President of the United States of America! Their 13 colonies are now 50 states and its dependents {American Samoa, Baker Island, Guam, Howland Island, Jarvis Island, Johnston Atoll, Kingman Reef, Midway Islands, Navassa Island, Northern Mariana Islands, Palmyra Atoll, Puerto Rico, Virgin Islands, Wake Island
note: from 18 July 1947 until 1 October 1994, the US administered the Trust Territory of the Pacific Islands; it entered into a political relationship with all four political units: the Northern Mariana Islands is a commonwealth in political union with the US (effective 3 November 1986); the Republic of the Marshall Islands signed a Compact of Free Association with the US (effective 21 October 1986); the Federated States of Micronesia signed a Compact of Free Association with the US (effective 3 November 1986); Palau concluded a Compact of Free Association with the US (effective 1 October 1994)}. As we await the 4th day of November so that this country can finally validate its claim as being land of the free, it feels as if we are in the final battle of a long fought war. A war in which the minds of a people have been scared worse than any in known human history. Yes, I am talking about the murder of our children, the rape of our women, the torture and murder of our men, and the deletion of our original culture. For so long we have been asked to forget our past and present suffering while also being told to go back to Africa. We cannot forget nor can we go back. They erased our past so we don't really know where to go back. We are here and have done our share. The time is right now for America to show us love. Yet, we cannot ask for this country to show us love. Time, trial, and error have shown that as a people we must rise up and take what we want. Now some may say that is the wrong way to do it. I say as Malcolm x said "When a person places the proper value on freedom, there is nothing under the sun that he will not do to acquire that freedom. Whenever you hear a man saying he wants freedom, but in the next breath he is going to tell you what he won't do to get it, or what he doesn't believe in doing in order to get it, he doesn't believe in freedom. A man who believes in freedom will do anything under the sun to acquire . . . or preserve his (or her) freedom.". This does not always mean that we have to take it by force or violence. Yet sometimes it does. There are those of us so called blacks who will try to say why should i vote for a person just because he or she is black. I say that when the person is qualified and Obama certainly is (Don't believe that foolishness they are trying put out there that he is not) then I say do so that the people among us who don't believe that we can amount to much as blacks can see that we are truly equal and can start to teach our children to not feel less than. Just imagine the mind set of those black child world wide who will know of a new reality with a black man as president of this planets most powerful country. Forget about all that you believe because we never knew this could happen. It is now a reality. Obama has placed himself on the battle field and fought along side them with dignity and respect and is beating them all at their game. Many whites don't like it because of their fears and ignorance but, who cares. We are here now. It feels as if the fight is almost over but, we must come out to break all records and make true history by casting our VOTES. Many of us have been conditioned to give up and accept what hand is delt us. We have been conditioned to allow others to rule over us and do little or nothing to change what happen to us. It is now time to stand up and fight with our right to VOTE. Stand proud that we have a man of color who is the right man for the job. Right here, right now this political battle must be won. Put aside your silly notions, your self hatred, your self doubt, and your FEAR of a BLACK planet. Love yourselves and allow your children to enjoy a USA, a world with a man of color as President of this Union. Let us do what has been a long time coming. SURE WE CAN!! Remember that "YOU ARE NEVER A LOSER UNTIL YOU QUIT TRYING"

Monday, October 27, 2008

Obama asks U.S. voters to "turn the page" While He & John McCain attacke each other's economic plans

CLEVELAND (Reuters) - Republican presidential nominee John McCain and Democrat Barack Obama Monday attacked each other's economic plans as wrong for the current downturn as they launched an eight-day sprint to Election Day.

Trailing in the polls, McCain appeared with a team of economic advisers at a Cleveland hotel and vowed to quickly take steps to restore confidence in the wilting U.S. stock market, keep people in their homes and create jobs if elected on November 4.

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Obama, enjoying a lead in national polls and in many battleground states, said in a speech to be delivered in Canton, Ohio, that it was time to "turn the page" from policies pushed by the outgoing Bush administration.

The two candidates were making their case in Ohio, a state that has been critical to Republican presidential victories in the last two elections.

Obama holds a lead in Ohio and in several other states that President George W. Bush won in 2004, putting Arizona Sen. McCain in a perilous position.

Obama held steady with a 5-point lead over McCain among likely U.S. voters nationally in a Reuters/C-SPAN/Zogby national tracking poll released Monday.

McCain said electing Obama would leave a "dangerous threesome" of Democrats in charge of the U.S. government, including House of Representatives Speaker Nancy Pelosi and Senate Democratic Leader Harry Reid, who would need to raise taxes to pay for ambitious spending plans.

"This election comes down to how you want your hard-earned money spent. Do you want to keep it and invest it in your future, or have it taken by the most liberal person to ever run for the presidency and the Democratic leaders who have been running Congress for the past two years," he said.

HUGH RALLIES

Fresh from huge rallies in Colorado Sunday, Illinois Sen. Obama laid blame for the deepening financial crisis on Bush and said McCain's economic approach would mirror the president's.

He took aim at McCain's proposal for cuts in corporate tax rates and his opposition to rolling back the Bush tax cuts on the wealthiest Americans, saying they represented a "tired, old" approach on the economy.

"In one week, you can turn the page on policies that have put the greed and irresponsibility of Wall Street before the hard work and sacrifice of folks on Main Street," Obama was to say in Canton.

The Ohio speech has been billed by the Obama campaign as a "closing argument" for the candidate and one he will emphasize in a 30-minute prime-time television advertisement on Wednesday.

McCain, trying to make a comeback after losing his footing during the financial crisis, attempted to make up lost ground on economic issues. Majorities of Americans say in opinion polls that they trust Obama more to handle the U.S. economy.

McCain said his approach would be to get government spending under control and cut taxes to encourage people to invest in the stock markets or buy a home. Obama's approach, he said, would increase spending and raise taxes to pay for it.

"This is the fundamental difference between Senator Obama and me. We both disagree with President Bush on economic policy. The difference is that he thinks taxes have been too low, and I think that spending has been too high," McCain said.

Among his economic advisers were two people he passed over to become his vice presidential running mate, former Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney and Minnesota Gov. Tim Pawlenty.

CHICAGO (Reuters) - Democrat Barack Obama on Monday called on voters to "turn the page" on the policies of the Bush administration as he emphasized his message of change in a closing argument for the presidential campaign.

With eight days left before Election Day, the Illinois senator laid blame for the deepening financial crisis on U.S. President George W. Bush and said Republican presidential candidate John McCain's approach on the economy would mirror Bush's.

"Sen. McCain has served this country honorably. And he can point to a few moments over the past eight years where he has broken from George Bush -- on torture, for example," Obama said in excerpts from a speech he is to deliver later in Canton, Ohio.

"He deserves credit for that. But when it comes to the economy -- when it comes to the central issue of this election -- the plain truth is that John McCain has stood with this president every step of the way," Obama said.

The Ohio speech has been billed by the Obama campaign as a "closing argument" for the candidate and one he will emphasize in a 30-minute prime-time television advertisement on Wednesday.

Obama, seeking to become the first black U.S. president, is leading McCain in both national opinion polls and in surveys of many of the crucial battleground states that will decide the election.

Obama held steady with a 5-point lead over McCain among likely U.S. voters nationally in a Reuters/C-SPAN/Zogby national tracking poll released on Monday.

McCain, an Arizona senator, has described himself and running mate Sarah Palin as mavericks and said he has shown a willingness throughout his career to break with his Republican Party, including with Bush. McCain has said Obama does not have a track record of bucking his own party.

But Obama took at aim at McCain's proposal for cuts in corporate tax rates and his opposition to rolling back the Bush tax cuts on the wealthiest Americans, saying they represented a "tired, old" approach on the economy.

"In one week, you can turn the page on policies that have put the greed and irresponsibility of Wall Street before the hard work and sacrifice of folks on Main Street," Obama told voters.


Sunday, October 26, 2008

'Dreamgirl' Hudson's family nightmare

Jennifer Hudson makes tragic homecoming to Chicago as FBI searches for missing nephew

Updated Sunday, October 26th 2008, 12:49 AM

Chicago police vehicles outside the Chicago home where Jennifer Hudson's mother and brother were found murdered Friday.

Oscar-winner Jennifer Hudson's older sister made a heartwrenching plea Saturday to the person responsible for abducting her son to "just let my baby go."

"I don't care who you are," said an emotional Julia Hudson, her eyes red-rimmed. "Just let my son go....He doesn't deserve this."

"I know he's out there," she pleaded. "Just let him go. Put him on the side of the street. He'll sit there. Somebody will see him. He'll probably cry until somebody comes along."

RELATED: PAROLEE BRAGS OF HUDSON, BUT HIDES CHECKERED PAST

Hudson, 31, speaking at Pleasant Gift Missionary Baptist Church in Chicago, disclosed no new information on the murder of her mother and brother inside the family's home on Friday, insisting that her priority was her missing son, Julian King, 7.

Julia Hudson said her famous sister began screaming after she gave her the horrific news by phone in the hours after the slaying.

"Despite her being who she is, she is still my sister," Julia Hudson said. "She understood. She flew in right away, and we've been together since.

"We're all still in a state of shock," she said, as her son's father, Greg King, stood nearby. "I don't know nothing to do but pray."

RELATED: MOM'S HOME KEPT HUDSON GROUNDED

Julia Hudson then spoke directly to little Julian, who disappeared from the home after his family members were gunned down. "I love you, and Mama's looking for you," Hudson said. "I'm not going to stop until you come home."

Julia Hudson made her emotional plea hours after her famous sister completed a mournful pilgrimage to her hometown to identify the bodies of her slain mother, Darnell Donerson, 57, and brother Jason, 29, in the morgue.

The FBI joined the hunt for Julian, last seen before the bodies were discovered with multiple gunshot wounds in Hudson's childhood home. The arrival of the feds suggested the boy may have been taken across state lines.

"It's really, really spooky," John Buckner, a cousin of the star singer, told the Daily News. "I'm so worried about the kid right now. It's all pretty much in God's hands."

Buckner said the missing child - described as a happy-go-lucky boy - was the only grandchild of Hudson's slain mother. "She was a wonderful person, very sweet person," he said of Donerson. "We never knew her to have any problems with anyone."

As the fruitless hunt for the boy - who goes by the nicknames, Juicebox and Dr. King - stretched into a second day, the level of despair for his recovery increased.

"We need to find that kid by sundown," Ziff Sistrunk, a community activist, said Saturday afternoon.

"Dreamgirls" star Hudson, along with other family members, visited the Cook County medical examiner's office to identify the bodies, the office said Saturday. It was a devastating homecoming for Hudson, who was extraordinarily close to her mom and loyal to her Chicago neighborhood.

Hudson's publicist, Lisa Kasteler, said the actress and her family wanted privacy. But attention in the case focused on a family member: Hudson's brother-in-law, William Balfour,a violent ex-con with a long rap sheet.

Balfour, 27, was arrested Friday after another family member found the two victims shot to death in the white three-story home on South Yale Ave. He has not been charged.

Hudson's mother was found on the living room floor and her brother in a bedroom - both shot several times, the Cook County medical examiner said after conducting autopsies.

Randy Jackson, a judge on "American Idol," the reality show that propelled Hudson to nationwide fame in 2004, said he left the former contestant a "couple heartfelt messages."

"My heart goes out to her," Jackson told In Touch magazine. "When I heard about it, I couldn't believe it. Her mom was so great."

Balfour's mother, Michele, said Balfour and Julia Hudson split up last winter after two years of marriage. Michele Balfour added that Donerson had ordered her son to move out of the home last winter, but she insisted he was not involved in the shootings.

Less than a day after the slayings, an impromptu memorial appeared outside the home. Three sad-faced stuffed animals, several bouquets and a bottle of Remy Martin cognac were placed on the sidewalk near the front gate.

Authorities said neighbors heard gunshots around 9 a.m. Friday, although no one called police - apparently because the sound was common on the block.

"It's normal around here morning, noon and night," said local resident Bobby Israel. "If it wasn't Jennifer Hudson - no disrespect - I don't think none of you would be here."

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Jennifer Hudson's mother, brother shot dead

Hudson's mother, brother shot dead
Nephew, 7, missing; police search for 'armed and dangerous' suspect
Oct 25, 2008 04:30 AM
Staff Reporter

The mother and 29-year-old brother of Oscar-winning actress Jennifer Hudson were found shot to death inside their Chicago home yesterday, some seven hours after neighbours first reported hearing gunfire.

The body of Hudson's mother Darnell Donnerson was found on the living room floor by a family member who entered the house just before 3 p.m.; her brother Jason was found dead in a bedroom.

One of the victims, police said, had defensive wounds; there was no sign of forced entry.

Family pastor Willie Davis of Progressive Baptist Church said Hudson, who has so far made no comment, was rushing home from Florida last night.

"They found Jennifer's mother and her brother murdered in her mother's home this afternoon," Davis told Chicago CNN affiliate CLTV.

Police were talking to "a number of people in custody" last night, police spokesperson Monique Bond told the Associated Press.

Hudson, who rose to fame with her American Idol appearances in 2005, and won an Oscar in 2007 for best supporting actress for her role as Effie White in the film Dreamgirls, was in Tampa at the time.

Police spokesperson Monique Bond said the deaths appeared to be the result of a domestic disturbance, but did not elaborate.

Authorities quickly issued an Amber Alert for 7-year-old Julian King, Donnerson's grandson and Hudson's nephew. He was reported missing from the home by his mother, Hudson's sister Julia, who works as a Chicago bus driver.

Officers were also looking for William Balfour, who they say is a suspect in the double homicide.

According to a police bulletin, he is described as "armed and dangerous."

Balfour, who had been staying at the house, pleaded guilty in 1999 to attempted murder and vehicular hijacking, court records show. He was also convicted in 1998 of possessing a stolen motor vehicle.

"We have some promising leads, but it's very preliminary right now," said deputy police chief Joseph Patterson.

Investigators said Balfour may be driving a white 1994 Chevrolet Suburban, registered to Jason Hudson, which is missing from the home.

Some neighbours living near the big white house on South Yale Ave. reported hearing multiple shots around 8 a.m., but the bodies – Donnerson shot in the head, her son shot in the chest – weren't found until 2:44 p.m., when a cousin entered the house, spotted Donnerson's body, and called police.

According to local media reports, the cousin notified police who entered the house and found the body of Hudson's brother.

In an interview last year with Vogue, Hudson – who grew up in Chicago – credited her mother with the decision to audition for American Idol, which launched her career.

In a recent interview, Hudson – whose father died when she was a teenager – credited her family for keeping her grounded.

"My faith in God and my family, they're very realistic and very normal, they're not into the whole limelight kind of thing, so when I go home to Chicago, that's just another place that's home," she said.

Human Architecture


Architecture is humanity’s most spiritual embodiment of culture. Every stage of human civilization has developed its own unique building styles, by either borrowing from past cultures or inventing original forms. Today, architectural relics from many distant ages remain, including little known works in the deep seas and deserts. Some of these appear remarkably modern.

We are left with the following questions. How could these structures remain until today? What implications do their existence have for people of the future? Every civilization in world history had a glorious peak in terms of its science. However, seemingly none of their products of “high technology” survive today. Then, how did their structures survive? I had tried to answer this question before but could not because I based my thinking on present day theories. I didn’t get very far.

Through Falun Dafa cultivation, I have come to understand that if matter contains evil vibrations that oppose the Fa, this matter will degenerate faster. In contrast, long lasting matter consists of vibrations that are harmonious with the Fa. These vibrations are also manifestations of what ancient Chinese people called the “Tao.” They believed that one who has reached perfection could find the “Tao” in everything. For example, this “Tao” regulates the standards of a profession. Attaining the Tao is the ultimate goal of every path. In other words, ancient people believed in the existence of gods. They respected, feared them and upheld human culture as set forth by gods. Ancient structures suggest that they functioned as a place to worship or pay respect to gods. Many researchers have come to this conclusion upon finding such common elements as aesthetic conformity, rich symbolism, grand form with delicate and harmonious detail, relatively simple building materials, artistic incorporation and modest arrangement of internal space. Buildings constructed to honor gods withstood the test of time because they contain an aspect of the Tao. Then, these existing architectural relics must have clues that let us know the Tao of construction. Although they are from an ancient time and a different cosmic climate, their positive elements endure and can inspire architects today. However, changes in technology, building materials and human ideology have dramatically changed the way we build. Architectural changes since the turn of the century have been especially pronounced in the wake of globalization, post-modernism, high-tech obsession, cubism, constructivism, de-constructivism, and fauvism (1). In the following paragraphs I will explore the differences between ancient and contemporary architecture from four different perspectives.

1. The relationship between architecture and the environment

Contemporary architecture is based on the philosophy of individualism. The modern architectural space depends on an artificial urban landscape to harmonize the logic, rationality and individuality of modernism. Over the last two centuries, architecture, like other art forms, has developed in isolation from other disciplines. There is little to no collaboration with other schools of thought and expression.

Ancient architecture was quite different. Usually, it was harmonious with the surrounding geography, climate and landscape. Beyond the physical appearance, it expressed objective laws of the universe. The basic goal of the grandiose pyramids in Egypt, the elegant pavilions and bridges in ancient Chinese gardens and theories of architectural harmony, like Feng Shui was to express the laws of the cosmos and assist man in his spiritual evolution. Lasting architecture always followed such principles. Teaching it was considered sacred. It was passed on by word of mouth from master to apprentice. The theories did not evolve over time, but rather had a true origin, the laws of cosmos.

People at that time saw everything as a manifestation of the power of the gods. From this standpoint, ancient people understood nature as a specific manifestation of the gods, something created for humans by gods. The architect’s charge was considered to be a manifestation of godly power. He not only focused on structural integrity, but also on harmonizing the cycle of material existence with higher levels. Unlike modern architecture, ancient architecture did not separate humans from nature. Neither did it use abstract aesthetic theories to analyze and rationalize its form.

2. Architectural forms

In contemporary architecture, one of the most important values is the creation of completely new architectural forms and ideas. However, the architectural remains from ancient cultures all had standardized forms. Throughout history, there had been few dramatic changes. Some attribute this to limitation in technology and labor. It is actually due to a completely different way of thinking about form. Modern people [in China] tend not to believe in gods, thereby severing the fundamental connection between men and gods. People don’t understand the origin or importance of form. They treat it merely as something created by an individual's free and boundless imagination. Consequently, form is expressed without restraint.

Ancient people viewed things differently. Most of them believed in the existence of gods. As a result of predestined relationships and good inborn quality, gods enlightened them, giving them a vision of the source of architecture from higher levels. The architects focused on understanding the deepest meanings of the original forms and tried their best to recreate the perfected form in the human world. They meticulously maintained the lineage to pass on the purest interpretation of form and the building skills necessary to achieve that. In ancient China the architects were known as craftsmen.

The modern mind may wonder why ancient people tirelessly built so many structures that were so similar in form and with such delicate detail. It is because the perfect image originally came from gods. The attempt to grasp that form was a method of enlightening to and balancing the subtle details which would determine perfection. The end product was the yardstick to measure one’s achievements and failures.

In different historical periods, different cultures communicated with different gods. This is why architectural forms differ over time and space. Ancient architecture truly exemplified the belief that “heaven and man should be harmonious.”

3. Architectural detail

Contemporary architecture has few details of design. Some buildings such as the defining works of the modernist-international school express “less is more” and do not have any detail work at all. Post-modernism followed modernism and reintroduced some detail, but these are often random, incongruous and completely different than ancient architecture’s uniformity. This is partly due to a failure to grasp the importance of details as anything more than a coincidental, subjective sense of aesthetic flare. The meaning is no deeper than an individual’s imagination and, as a result, many contemporary buildings are sparse in detail, often being reduced to plain glass. Some buildings reach the other extreme. The design is so complex that it is difficult understand.

Ancient people believed that no one part in a building should stand alone. Everything is related, in intricate ways, to the harmonious integrity of the building and its surrounding environment. Every aspect has deep meaning. Feng Shui, for instance, dictates specific rules on the relationship of environment, general layout, form, construction material, order of construction, and cosmic timing. More specifically, every component of decoration has an indispensable function, and cannot be casually omitted or altered. For example, in traditional Chinese architecture, there will be a specific order for the roof, roofline paintings, decorative windowsills, murals and calligraphy. These elements have different functions when used in different places. Another example is a Chinese garden. Every footpath and gate had a specific name which described its place in the overall garden scheme. Ancient people put much emphasis on these details not only to achieve superior function and aesthetic quality, but also to express their relation to the will of heaven. A waterspout will not merely convey water, but also express the essence of water. Along a roofline there will be sculptures of deities and sacred animals. This attention to detail is an attempt to conform to a higher level.

4. Architectural materials

Architectural technology is advancing very quickly. New materials and processing methods appear frequently and the proportion of natural material is diminishing. This phenomenon is especially obvious in urban buildings. People base building material decisions on the visual effect, physical properties and economic returns. From the contemporary point of view, these new technologies make architecture far more advanced than traditional architecture in every way. However, what has been preserved from history tells us just the opposite. In fact, few of these “high-tech” materials have a long life. The main reason is the principle of mutual-generation and mutual-inhibition. In the complicated process of changing the property of a material, its overall integrity is compromised. For example, a metal panel is easy to shape but corrodes easily. A layer of paint is added to protect it from the elements. But the wide use of such paint is polluting the environment. Negative consequences over the long term are not often considered. The separation of scientific schools usually adds to this problem.

In fact, ancient people had fairly advanced building technology. Dayan Tower in Xi’an and the Wooden Tower in Ying County have endured many strong earthquakes. Such ancient structures’ amazing durability is beyond the comprehension of modern-day people and current technology. It is obvious that ancient structures consist mostly of natural materials. Few used any synthetic material. The reason for this, besides relatively abundant resources, is belief in the gods. Ancient people thought, by using natural materials, they could better preserve and conform to the order of the macrocosm. They did not focus on meeting the desires of individuals, and thus did not endanger the environment for future generations.

From the above examples, we can conclude that ancient and modern people have fundamentally different views of architecture. Ancient people looked at things taking into account the perspective of gods, while today’s people are solely focused on humans. When ancient people evaluated a building, they compared it to their understanding of heavenly standards. They referred to a beautiful creation as a solution “sent by gods.” The deeper meaning is quite different from what people today refer to as innovation. Gods do exist. Ancient relics prove it. Mankind should consider architecture as a central part of human culture. In fact, in the field of architecture, “following the Tao” is to attain the form and meaning of buildings in higher dimensions. Architecture in the future should be based entirely on this principle. This is a manifestation of the Fa of the universe at a more evolved human level.

The above is some of my understanding from reading Zhuan Falun. I suggest you consider reading it.

Translated from:

http://www.zhengjian.org/zj/articles/2002/3/18/14318.html

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1 Fauvism; Fauve: beast (French); artisans, especially painters, who typically used bright, bold colors in a wild, garish fashion.

The Sociology of Human Sexuality

You know how important the human sex drive is. You've been experiencing this aspect of yourself since at least puberty. When your hormones kicked in, suddenly the world looked different. And it hasn't looked the same since!

You also know how powerful the human sex drive is. Of those many things that you would like to do--or the things you might like to experiment with, or have thought about doing--there are only some that you can do. Others are out of bounds. Even our sexual fantasies--our internal longings that sometimes take picture form--we certainly can't share them with everyone, much less do them. We have to keep many aspects of our sex drive under control, or else we would get in trouble.

WHAT DOES SOCIOLOGY HAVE TO DO WITH SEX?

One of the first questions you might be asking is: "What does sociology have to do with sex? I know that I have a sex drive--and I have sexual preferences and fantasies--but these are mine. These are personal matters."

And certainly sex is personal! But sex is more than personal. It is also a social matter. Let's see what I mean by this.

Sex as Personal

First, let's consider the personal aspect of sex--our sexual desires, our sexual attitudes, and the sexual things we do. These feelings and behaviors are ours. They are highly personal and intimate. They are part of us.

Sex is part of our very nature. Although we may think of puberty as the time when our sexual life began, some analysts, especially psychoanalysts, say our sexual life began at birth, or shortly afterward. Some even say it goes back to before birth, while we were in our mother's womb (Gagnon and Simon 1998). Some of us can remember sexual behaviors that go back to our infancy. Such memories of unfocused sexual activity are not far-fetched, for infants have been observed to sexually stimulate themselves.

Each of us has images of ideal sexual partners, of people who "turn us on." Some of us are attracted to people with blonde hair, others to people with dark hair. Some of us find skinny people sexually attractive, while others are attracted to heavy people. Some of us prefer short people, others tall people. Some of us are attracted to members of the opposite sex, others to members of the same sex. The parts of the human body that turn some of us on don't have the same stimulating effects on others. Some of us are sexually stimulated by inanimate objects, or even animals, while some of us are not. The sexual acts that stimulate some of us, others don't like them at all.

Our sexuality--our sexual attitudes, desires, preferences, and behaviors, in whatever forms they take--is a highly personal matter. Our sexuality is so intimate that it is an integral part of our own identity--our feelings of who we are. It is difficult for something to be more personal than this.

Sex as Social

Sex is much more than personal, however. It is also social. In fact, we can't understand sex apart from our membership in human groups. Although it is we who feel particular sexual desires, we who have certain sexual preferences and fantasies, and we who engage in particular sexual behaviors, these are not simply an expression of something that comes from within us. Throughout this text, you have seen how your membership in groups shapes your feelings, attitudes, and behavior. This highly personal and intimate realm of your life called sex is no exception. It, too, is shaped by your membership in groups. The Thinking Critically box on the social control of sex explores this further.

Throughout this text, I stress how human behavior varies around the world. I've reviewed some strikingly different customs concerning marriage, suicide, race, gender, medicine, religion, infanticide, and other aspects of life. Just as cultures differ in these areas, so they differ with regard to human sexuality. As we look at some of this variation around the world, it should be apparent that had you been reared in a different culture, not only would your speech, your clothing, and your ideas about how to make a living be different, but so would your sexual attitudes, behaviors, and even fantasies.

This, in short, is the social aspect of our sexuality: Although we have a built-in biological sex drive, our membership in groups shapes or gives direction to this drive. Because different groups have different expectations--and different values, beliefs, and patterns of behavior--sexual behaviors, and even desires, vary from one group to another. This principle applies not only to different groups around the world but also to different groups within the same society. Consequently, sexual desires and behaviors differ by gender, race-ethnicity, age, religious orientation, and social class. Sex research is still in its infancy, and most of these differences are yet to be discovered, but consider just two aspects of the effects of social class in the United States: Compared with middle-class boys and girls, lower-class boys and girls begin to have sexual intercourse at an earlier age; compared with lower-class women, professional women and those with graduate school education are more likely to reach orgasm (Simon and Gagnon 1998).

It is probably not surprising to you that, true to their calling, sociologists place a greater emphasis on the social aspects of human sexuality than does anyone else. You may find it surprising, however, to learn that some sociologists, primarily symbolic interactionists, consider that our sex drive is so undirected at birth, so malleable or capable of being shaped, that any of us can learn to be heterosexual or homosexual. Let's consider this view.

THE SOCIAL CONSTRUCTION OF SEXUAL IDENTITY

The Essentialists and the Social Constructionists

When we refer to sexual orientation, two views come into conflict. The essentialist view is that we are born with a sexual orientation. This orientation develops from within us, much like a flower unfolds from a seed or a bulb. Depending on what you plant, you can only get a rose or a hyacinth. A rose does not learn to be a rose, and a hyacinth does not learn to be a hyacinth. So our sexual orientation--which becomes the center of our sexual identity--is inborn. We are born with a sexual desire for people of the opposite sex or for members of our own sex. Our sexual orientation is essential to what we are. We do learn how to express our sexuality according to social expectations; that is, we learn a role--what society or some group expects of us because of what we are--but we already are that particular thing.

Most sociologists reject this view in favor of the social constructionist view. In this view, represented especially by symbolic interactionists, we construct our sexual identity. We are not born homosexual (having sexual preference for members of one's own sex) or heterosexual (having sexual preference for members of the opposite sex); rather, we learn these sexual orientations. As we learn them, we come to think of ourselves in these terms; that is, we acquire a sexual identity. As we do, we get a lot of help from others--from our family, friends, and peer groups. Even our culture is significant in this process of acquiring a sexual orientation and identity, for it provides the ideas and concepts that we apply to our self. Let's look at the social constructionist view in more detail.

The Shaping of Sexual Identity

Symbolic interactionists emphasize that our self-images are never firm, fixed things, but, rather, they are fluid and always "in process." You probably have noticed how your own self image changes. It may even go "up" or "down" with a grade you receive. It does the same when someone we are sexually attracted to says something positive or negative about us. We can feel our self image change when we feel accepted and loved--or rejected and disliked.

Our sexual identity is firmer than this. During childhood it may be tenuous, but over time it becomes more firmly rooted. As adults, we seldom question it. Most of us feel solidly heterosexual, and some of us feel solidly homosexual. We have our sexual desires, and we have a sexual identity that matches those desires. Seldom does our sexual identity come into question. But it does happen. We may have a disruptive experience, such as an unexpected sexual attraction to someone of the opposite sex (for those with a homosexual identity) or of the same sex (for those with a heterosexual identity). This can lead the individual to question his or her sexual identity. Homosexuals can wonder if they are, perhaps, "really" heterosexual, and heterosexuals can wonder if they are, perhaps, "really" homosexual.

For some, laying claim to a specific sexual identity is easy. They feel strongly that they are heterosexual or homosexual--and always have been. For others, finding what they think of as the "real" sexual self is a long, torturous process. Some never do settle the question of just "who" they are sexually. They move between heterosexual and homosexual identities, never quite sure if they are "one" or the "other." Some even decide that they are neither. Feeling sexual attraction for both males and females, they call themselves bisexuals.

Confirming our sexual identity: Activities and outsiders As we acquire our sexual identity, we try to confirm it. We tend to associate with people who reinforce our sexual self-image. If we identify ourselves as heterosexual, we tend to associate with heterosexuals and do "heterosexual things." Those "heterosexual things" may include making jokes about homosexuals. If we identify ourselves as homosexual, the process is similar. We tend to associate with homosexuals, and we do "homosexual things." We may joke about heterosexuals, the way "they" are.

Doing things associated with our particular sexual identity and joking about the "other" helps us lay claim to our sexual identity. Homosexuals serve as "outsiders" that help heterosexuals claim their sexual identity, while heterosexuals serve as "outsiders" that help homosexuals claim their sexual identity. One way that we know who we are is by knowing who we are not. "Insider" and "outsider" statuses help us to claim a distinct identity, for it means that we are not one of "them." The identities of heterosexuals and homosexuals differ from one another, but the process by which they arrive at those identities is similar. Regardless of our sexual orientation, each of us attempts to affirm a sexual identity, to more fully discover just "who" we are.

The role of culture In this process of developing a sexual identity, you can see culture at work: The categories we are currently offered are heterosexual, homosexual, and bisexual. People are expected to select one (actually, they are expected to select heterosexual), and to then define themselves according to that term. That term is commonly taken as written in stone--as representing what people really "are," not a role or a temporary identity. Earlier in our history, we apparently did not have this either--or approach, and some people engaged in occasional sex with members of their own sex without being labeled homosexual (Chauncey 1994; Valocchi 1999). To make the role that culture plays in our sexual identity clearer, you may want to consider a group that offers an entirely different choice.

In sum According to the essentialists, our sexual orientation is fixed in nature and inherent at birth. It represents our essential sexual being, what we really are. We learn roles that match our inborn sexual orientation. Since these roles are social, they differ from one group to another, but if there is a correct match, those roles reflect our biologically determined sexual orientation.

This view is rejected by most sociologists, who follow the social constructionists (represented especially by symbolic interactionists). According to this view, our sexual orientation is neither fixed in nature nor inherent at birth. Instead, we are born with an undirected sex drive that becomes channeled by our social experiences in some particular direction. In short, unlike what is commonly thought, our sexual orientation--whether it be heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, or something else--does not unfold automatically from within. Our sexual orientation is not like an acorn that can become only an oak tree. Rather, based on our personal experiences we learn our sexual preferences, assume a matching role from those available within our culture, and create a sexual identity.

To better understand the social aspect of human sexuality, let's consider the incest taboo, homosexuality, and heterosexuality. As we do, you may gain a better understanding of your own sexual self, of how your sexual identity develops.

THE INCEST TABOO: SOCIAL CONTROL OF HUMAN SEXUALITY

Another way to see how extensively sex is social is to look at the social control of human sexuality. One of the best examples is incest. Although most of us feel revulsion at the idea of having sex with our mother or father, a brother or a sister, or our own child, not everyone does. Such desires are present in every human group--for every human group has rules against such sex. These rules, or incest taboo, prohibit sex and marriage between certain specified relatives. In our society, those relatives are parents and their children, and brothers and sisters.

How the Incest Taboo Varies Among Groups

Feelings against incest run so deeply that we might think the incest taboo is due to human instinct. As you may have noticed, however, nowhere in this book do I speak of any human behavior whatsoever as due to instinct. The sociological view is that our behaviors and attitudes are due to our socialization in human groups. The incest taboo is no exception to this basic sociological principle.

Why don't we sociologists think of the incest taboo as instinctual? After all, it is found among every human group in the world. In no culture is sex between parents and their children, or between brother and sister, the norm.

First, the definition of incest varies from one group to another. In the United States, for example, marriage between first cousins is illegal in some states, but legal in others. Americans don't carry the ban against marriage beyond first cousins, but some groups carry it much farther. The Arunta, a tribe in Australia, for example, look at relationships in an entirely different way than we do. They think of certain clans as being "blood" relatives, and marriage between people in those clans as incest. They reckon such blood relationships so extensively that for Arunta men marriage to seven out of every eight women is defined as incest. Obviously, there is nothing instinctual about prohibiting sex or marriage among people we don't even see as related to one another--say your uncle's aunt's daughter's sister or brother, or even someone who has a certain last name.

"But the Arunta don't allow sex or marriage between brothers and sisters or parents and their children," you might argue.egyptians.jpg "So that is where the incest taboo is instinctual. The Arunta have just applied this universal instinct farther than anyone else." This argument sounds good, but it takes us to the second argument against the incest taboo being due to a human instinct. Some groups allow exceptions even here. For example, several groups have allowed marriages between brothers and sisters. In fact, three groups that we know of required brother-sister marriages for their high nobility: the ancient Egyptians, the Incas of Peru, and the old kingdom of Hawaii (Beals and Hoijer 1965). Some groups also allow sex between fathers and daughters. The Thonga, a tribe in East Africa, permit a hunter to have sexual intercourse with his daughter before he goes on a lion hunt. And a tribe in Central Africa, the Azande, permit high nobles to marry their own daughters (LaBarre 1960).

Are the Exceptions to the Incest Taboo Due to Power?

You may have noticed that these exceptions to the incest taboo that bans parent-child sex allow fathers to have sex with their daughters, not mothers to have sex with their sons. This may sound like more of the discrimination due to male power that we have examined throughout this text--men holding the power and giving themselves privileges that they deny to women. If you notice, these exceptions also generally apply to a group's nobility, to its rulers, which lends additional support to this argument.

This difference in power, however, is not necessary for a group to have patterns of approved incest. Ethel Albert, an anthropologist, did research among a group that approves of sex between a mother and her son. In her fieldwork among the Burundi of tropical Africa, Albert (1963:49) found that when a son is impotent the mother is supposed to have sex with him in order to cure his impotence. Here is what she says:

Sometimes the marriage does not last the four days of the honeymoon. The morning after the wedding, it can be that the young bride will go out into the yard and announce in a loud, clear voice: "I did not come here to go to bed with another girl." She goes home. The boy's father knows that his son is impotent. It is the mother's fault. She must have allowed the dried umbilical cord to fall on the male organ of her newborn son. The cure also is up to her. The parents give their son a great deal of beer so that he will become drunk. The father then leaves the house, and the mother then has intercourse with the son in order to remove the impotence which her neglect caused. If the cure has not failed--and there is great confidence in the probable success of this remedy--the young couple will be reunited and remain together to face the other risks of married life.

The Sociological Significance of the Exceptions

These exceptions to the incest taboo are startling to our ears, but I don't want you to get lost in the examples. Their sociological significance is that what one group defines as incest, another group may define as approved sex. In some groups, under circumstances that they determine, sex between a mother and her son, a father and his daughter, or a sister and brother is approved. Among some groups, it may even be required. We can see that behavior that we disapprove--or even find shocking or revolting--is approved by others. This follows the basic sociological principle stressed in the text--how we evaluate behavior depends on our socialization. That is, as discussed in Chapters 2 and 3, we learn our values--including our ideas of what is moral and immoral.

Why Is an Incest Taboo Universal?

If what is considered incest differs from one group to another, and what one group finds revolting another group approves or even requires, then why is there no human group that approves of father-daughter, mother-son, or brother-sister marriage for most of its people? Why does every human group prohibit such sex and marriage except for specified members under highly specific situations?

A social basis for the incest taboo was proposed by anthropologist Bronislaw Malinowski (1927, 1929). Malinowski said that the lack of an incest taboo would disrupt the socialization of a group's children. As you saw in the chapter on socialization (Chapter 3) and in the chapter on the family (Chapter 12 of Essentials and Chapter 16 of the hardback text), the family is essential for transmitting a society's customs--its way of life--to the next generation. It is in the family--no matter what form it may take in any part of the world--that children are initiated into the customs of their group.

If incest were generally allowed, said Malinowski, it would disrupt this socialization, which is essential for society. For example, if fathers and mothers were allowed to have intercourse with their children, what would their role be? Would they still be able to guide their children as parents? Or would their role change to that of lover? What we expect of people as parents and lovers are quite distinct matters. Specifically, to permit incest would lead to role conflict--the expectations and obligations that are attached to one role would conflict with those attached to another role. As a result, said anthropologist George Murdock (1949), to avoid these strains on the family every society developed some form of an incest taboo.

Because the incest taboo developed somewhere in the ancient past, leaving us no records, we are left with theorizing, not fact. This explanation of roles and socialization that anthropologists have developed may be correct, but we don't know for sure. We do know that every human group has some form of the incest taboo, and that it pushes children outside the family for marriage (what we call exogamy). By doing this, the incest taboo extends people's relationships and forces them to create alliances. In early human history, this would have been important for survival as alliances would have diminished war making between small human groups. In contemporary society, uniting people in larger networks leads to more cohesion (or unity). This functional analysis of the incest taboo, however, does not explain its origins, which are lost in history.

Offenders and Victims

Although incest is strongly condemned in U.S. society, it is not rare, and it has serious effects on its victims. Sociologist Diana Russell (1986) interviewed a probability sample (a representative sample from which we can generalize) of 930 women in San Francisco. She found that before they turned age eighteen, 16 percent of these women had been victims of incest, but only 5 of 100 cases had been reported to the police. Even though Russell interviewed a probability sample, we have to be careful of this conclusion. As you may recall from the materials on sociological methods (Chapter 2 in Essentials and Chapter 5 in the hardback text), operational definitions (how we define the concepts we are researching) affect our findings. Russell's operational definition of incest was so broad that it included not only sexual touching, sexual intercourse, and rape but also unwanted kisses and even "stealthy looks." It also included any relative. While this study does not adequately reflect common assumptions about incest, Russell found that many cases of sexual intercourse had not been reported to the police. We can conclude that the actual rate of incest is much higher than the official statistics.

Who are the offenders? Russell found that the most common offenders are uncles, followed by male first cousins. Then come fathers, brothers, and finally a variety of other male relatives from brothers-in-law to step-grandfathers. She found little incest between mother and son, a finding supported by other researchers (Lester 1972). As you can see, far from being random, incest shows specific patterns. You can see that incest increases as the relationship to the victim decreases. Gender is also especially strong, for seldom do women break this taboo.

Incest can create enormous burdens for its victims, from lower self-esteem and higher promiscuity to confusion about one's sexual identity (Finkelhor 1980; Bartoi and Kinder 1998; Lewin 1998). Diana Russell (n.d.) found that incest victims who experience the most difficulty are those who have been victimized the most often, those whose incest took place over a longer period of time, and those whose incest was "more serious," such as sexual intercourse as opposed to sexual touching.

HOMOSEXUALITY: GAY AND LESBIAN SEXUAL BEHAVIOR

In this section, I'll try to answer some basic questions. How many people are homosexual? Why are some people homosexual? Do some people who are not homosexual have sex with members of their own sex? Let's see what sociological answers we can find. That is, we will place the emphasis on the group or social context and be as objective as possible.

The Dilemma of Terms

Before we examine research and theory on homosexuality, we need to pause for a moment and consider terms. Terms have political meaning (they are seen by some as containing a bias in favor of or against something). Terms also have emotional content (people experience feelings when they hear or use them). In short, no term that refers to a matter of controversy is neutral for everyone, all terms arouse negative sentiments in someone, and no term will satisfy everyone. Even terms in common use in homosexual subcultures, such as gay and lesbian, are rejected by some homosexuals, who see them as oppressive (Yeung and Stombler 2000). In addition, the meanings of terms change, making a term that seems neutral at one point in time a matter of controversy at another point in time.

Hoping to find language that no one will object to, social analysts have suggested a variety of terms, such as "same-sex love" (Rupp 1999), homoeroticism, and even "same-gender affectional and sexual relations" (Gagnon 2001). Some--often those who are involved in "same-sex sexual or love relations" (another possible term)--are using the term "queer." They have aggressively tried to lay claim to an identity by snatching a term of derision from heterosexuals and imbuing it with new meaning. They have been fairly successful at this, at least in some academic circles, and a subfield has developed called "queer theory" and "queer studies." To what extent this term will become popular or how long it will last is anyone's guess.

I will use homosexuality to refer to sexual preference for members of one's own sex. Although this term has its detractors, it has a long history, and, as I see it from reviewing the alternatives, it is the most neutral, and yet standard, of terms available to refer to this aspect of human sexual behavior. Homosexuality is used in the full knowledge that no term in what has become a highly charged political matter (called "cultural politics") is entirely satisfactory.

To place homosexuality in perspective, we first need to distinguish homosexuality from homosexual behavior. Where homosexuality refers to the sexual preference for members of one's own sex, homosexual behavior refers to sexual behavior between people of the same sex, regardless of whether they prefer same-sex partners or not. Many male prisoners, for example, prefer to have sex with women, but, since they can't, they engage in homosexual behavior.

Attitudes and Discrimination

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Attitudes toward homosexuality and homosexual behavior vary widely around the world. The countries with the most accepting attitudes are probably Denmark, Holland, Norway, and Sweden, where same-sex marriages are legal. The countries with the most rejecting attitudes are probably Afghanistan, Iran, Mauritania, Pakistan, Saudi Arabia, Sudan, and Yemen, where homosexual behavior is punishable by death (Mackay 2000). Most societies fall between these extremes.

In recent years, Americans have become more tolerant of homosexuality, but their attitudes are still largely negative. Despite the efforts of gay action groups to change laws, private, consensual sex between people of the same sex remains illegal in most states. As Figure HS.1 shows most Americans want it this way. Americans are fairly evenly split on this issue, however, and 44 percent would like to see consensual homosexual relations between adults legalized.

From this table, you can see how attitudes vary by sex, race-ethnicity, age, education, income, and even region of the country. Younger people, college graduates, and those who have higher incomes express more favorable attitudes. Those most likely to favor the legality of private, consensual homosexual acts are white male college graduates who have high incomes and live in the West. Those most likely to want homosexual relations to be illegal are elderly black female high school graduates who have low incomes and live in the South.

As this table shows, attitudes toward homosexuality are the least favorable in the South, the most favorable in the East. These attitudes are reflected in state law. Georgia, for example, has made sodomy (anal intercourse) punishable by up to 20 years in prison. Although marriage between homosexuals is not legal in any state, one of the Eastern states has come close to making it legal. In 2000, the Vermont legislature approved what it calls "gay unions." It reserved the term marriage for heterosexual couples, however. This fine distinction in terms--allowing homosexuals "legal unions" but not marriage--was intended to satisfy the concerns of heterosexual voters. It failed to accomplish its purpose, however, and an uproar of protest followed the passage of this law.

You may wonder if Georgia's law that allows judges to sentence an adult to 20 years in prison for a private, consensual sex act could be constitutional. Many people thought it wasn't, and this law was challenged. In 1986, in Hardwick v. Bowers, the U.S. Supreme Court upheld its constitutionality (Wermiel 1986).

Over the years, homosexuals have been the victims of violence. Out of concern that much violence motivated by bias was being overlooked, in 1990 the U.S. Congress authorized the FBI to collect data on hate crimes. Hate crimes are not new crimes, but traditional crimes that are now defined as motivated by bias against the victim, in this case, crimes committed against someone because that person is a homosexual. This law provides some measure of additional protection, but, as with any law, it is only as good as its enforcement.

Changing Relations

The overall situation of homosexuals in the United States has been changing. Due to protests by gay activists and the position taken by the American Civil Liberties Union, homosexuals face less discrimination than they used to. The Civil Service Commission no longer denies federal employment to homosexuals. Similarly, many multinational firms--from AT&T to IBM-- follow policies of not discriminating against homosexuals in hiring or promotion. San Francisco even seeks homosexuals to be members of its police force. Homosexuals used to be easy targets of politicians who wanted to ingratiate themselves with voters and further their own political ambitions. Today, for a politician to verbally attack homosexuals would be to risk his or her political career.

Such changes, however, do not mean the end of open discrimination. The FBI and CIA, for example, will not knowingly hire homosexuals. And although the Defense Department follows a "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy, soldiers who are discovered to be homosexual are discharged from the military. In some work settings, however, notably the arts, homosexuals are more open about their sexual preference. Openness also varies by geography. Homosexuals are more open in some urban centers, such as San Francisco and New York, as compared to small towns in the South.

Because of continuing hostility and discrimination, most homosexuals remain "in the closet"; that is, while they are at work and in most of their social relations, they conceal their sexual identity. For an analysis of their strategies of concealment, see the Cultural Diversity in the United States box.

Research on Homosexuality

The Kinsey research The most famous research--and for a long time just about the only research--on homosexuality was the Kinsey studies. Alfred Kinsey, a zoologist, and his associates included homosexuality in their classic 1948 study, Sexual Behavior in the Human Male. Based on the experiences of about 5,300 men, Kinsey found that 37 percent of U.S. men had at least one sexual experience with a same-sex partner that resulted in orgasm. Many of these acts were sexual experimentation by adolescents. Almost all these males went on to live heterosexual lives. Kinsey also concluded that about 4 percent of U.S. males are exclusively homosexual throughout life.

Kinsey's findings shocked the U.S. public and unleashed a storm of criticism in the academic community. It turned out that Kinsey's research had a major flaw: He had used a biased sample, and there was no valid way to generalize from his findings to the U.S. population. Kinsey had recruited some subjects from prisons and reform schools, inmates that hardly represent U.S. males. He also had interviewed only white males, and he had too high a percentage from the lower classes (Himmelhoch and Fava 1955).

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As I stressed in the materials on how sociologists do research (Chapter 2 in Essentials and Chapter 5 in the hardback text), if you use the right sample, you can generalize to an entire nation. If your sample isn't any good, however, you can't generalize to anything. And that is how bad Kinsey's sample was. Instead of Sexual Behavior in the Human Male, his book should have been called something like Sexual Behavior of Lower Class, White American Males Who Have Been Locked Up in Prison. This at least would have been more accurate.

Despite this fatal flaw, Kinsey and his associates do deserve credit for doing groundbreaking research in what had been a forbidden area. Unfortunately, Kinsey's research continued to be quoted as true for 50 years. In fact, some continue to quote Kinsey's findings today, although he hadn't used a representative sample of U.S. males.

If it isn't 37 percent of U.S. males who have had sex with other males and 4 percent who are homosexual, then what percentages are correct? And what about women?

The Laumann research It took until 1994 to be able to answer these questions. Sociologist Edward Laumann headed a team of sociologists that studied U.S. sexual behavior. Because they interviewed a representative sample of the U.S. population ages 18 to 59, we can generalize their findings to the entire U.S. population of this age. As you can tell from Figure HS.1, Laumann found that over a five-year period, 4.1 percent of U.S. men and 2.2 percent of U.S. women had sex with someone of their own sex. If the time period is extended to include their entire lives, these totals increase to 7.1 percent of the men and 3.8 percent of the women.

This is a far cry from Kinsey's 37 percent for men. But Kinsey could be right--if we refer to lower class, white U.S. men who have been incarcerated. Laumann is correct if we refer to the general U.S. population, ages 18 to 59.

As Figure HS.1 also shows, 1.4 percent of U.S. women and 2.8 percent of U.S. men identify themselves as homosexual. These percentages are almost identical to Americans who report that they have had sex with a same-sex partner during the past year (1.3 percent of the women and 2.7 percent of the men). Even these totals may be slightly high, as the Laumann researchers counted as homosexual people who identify themselves as bisexual. Although Laumann's sample is excellent, giving us data from which we can generalize, as you will recall from the text's materials on how sociologists do research, some sociologists desire more qualitative data. They want to know what occurs when people interact with one another. (Recall the distinction between quantitative and qualitative research discussed in the chapter on methods.)

Qualitative research: the Humphreys sStudy To get qualitative information on homosexual behavior, sociologist Laud Humphreys (1970) devised an ingenious but widely criticized technique. Laud, a friend of mine in graduate school at Washington University, was "in the closet" at the time. He didn't reveal his own homosexuality openly until several years after he completed his research.

Laud knew that some male homosexuals meet for impersonal sex in public restrooms, which they call tearooms. He began to study these encounters for his doctoral dissertation. Homosexuals who engage in sex in tearooms like to have a third person present, someone they call a "watch queen." This person warns them if he sees a stranger approaching. Humphreys took this role, which allowed him to be present and enabled him to make systematic observations of who does what with whom. He saw that to initiate sex these men used a system of gestures at the urinal, and then moved to a toilet stall for fellatio (oral sex). Their quick, anonymous sex usually occurred without the exchange of a single word. Another sociologist, Edward Delph (1978), confirmed the silence surrounding these sexual encounters.

Humphreys was puzzled by something he observed. He found that 38 percent of the men who were having tearoom sex were married, and they identified themselves as heterosexual. He wondered if they were really heterosexual. If so, why were they having sex with other men? It turned out that these men were sexually frustrated with their wives. Tearooms gave them a sexual outlet that did not require an emotional commitment (which would interfere with their marriages), money (which they didn't want to waste), or socializing (which they didn't have time for--this was just a quick stop off the highway on their way home from work). In essence, the tearooms functioned as a free house of prostitution, a place where they could obtain oral sex at no charge. Their quick stop at a park restroom just off the highway jeopardized neither their work nor their commuting schedule.

Sociologists Jay Corzine and Richard Kirby (1977) did a study of sex at truck stops. There they found something similar--heterosexual truckers having sex with homosexuals who search out partners at highway rest areas.

As you read about Humphrey's research, you may have wondered how he knew that 38 percent of the participants in tearoom sex were married. Certainly they didn't tell Humphreys that--and counting wedding rings wouldn't be accurate. Humphreys wrote down these men's license plate numbers and traced their home addresses. A year later, he visited the men at home, in the guise of a researcher conducting a health survey. As I said in the research methods section in the text, this technique set off a storm of controversy--both within and outside of sociology.

Situational homosexual behavior Sociologists have also studied situational homosexual behavior. Although the participants prefer sex with someone of the opposite sex, due to a special situation they engage in homosexual sex. Prisons and same-sex boarding schools are two examples where this often occurs.

Sociologist George Kirkham (1971) studied situational homosexual behavior at the state prison at Soledad, California. He found three types of participants. In the jargon of the prisoners, they were known as queens (homosexual men who prefer same-sex partners), wolves (heterosexual men who force other men to have sex with them), and punks (heterosexual men who are forced to have sex). Situational homosexual behavior usually disappears when the situation changes--such as when a man is discharged from prison and again has access to sex with women.

Causes of Homosexuality

This example helps us understand why some heterosexuals have sex with someone of their own sex-because of force or lack of access to someone of the opposite sex. But what do we know about the causes of homosexuality? That is, why do some people prefer to have sex with people of their own sex?

Despite many theories and thousands of studies, we do not know the answer. Although it is possible that genetics in the form of DNA markers, or the organization of the brain, may underlie human sexual orientation, researchers have found no chemical, biological, or even psychological differences that distinguish homosexuals and heterosexuals (Hooker 1957, 1958; Masters and Johnson 1979; Paul et al., 1982; Hamer et al. 1993; LeVay 1993; Laumann et al. 1994). In addition, we would expect identical twins--who develop from a single fertilized egg and share 100 percent of their heredity--to always have the same sexual orientation. If sexual orientation is inherited, then if one twin is heterosexual (or homosexual) the other twin should have the same sexual orientation. In some pairs of identical twins, however, one twin may have a heterosexual orientation and the other a homosexual orientation (McConaghy and Blaszczynski 1980; Bailey and Pillard 1991; Satinover 1996).

With such findings, most sociologists take the social constructionist view and consider homosexuality to be the result of socialization (the environment), not genetics. No consistent patterns of socialization of homosexuals have been identified, however. Like heterosexuals, homosexuals come from a variety of family backgrounds. Consequently, unlike some psychoanalysts, sociologists do not view the cause of homosexuality to be a particular type of family relations, such as a "weak," aloof father and a close, "dominant" mother (Bieber 1976; Pillard 1990; Mallet and Apostolidis 1997).

As with other human behavior, sociologists do not rule out the possibility that genetics underlie homosexual and heterosexual orientations. If these genetic causes exist, however, they have yet to be demonstrated. Also, if they exist, the sexual orientation is likely due to an interplay between these genetic factors and the environment. At this point, however, no "gay gene" has been found.

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Let's consider one more aspect of homosexuality--differences that researchers have found between male and female homosexuals. (The term for a female homosexual, lesbian, apparently first referred to the Greek island of Lesbos, home of the poet Sappho, who wrote poetry that celebrated the love of woman for woman.)

Earlier, we saw that homosexuality is more common among males than females, a finding supported by all researchers who have reported on this matter. Let's see what other differences researchers have found. One of the most significant is that lesbians are more likely to seek emotional relationships, and to place greater value on mutual commitment and sexual fidelity (Faderman 1981; Blackwood 1985, 1996). As a result, they tend to have fewer sexual partners than male homosexuals, and, if living in a committed relationship, they are less likely to have sex outside that relationship (Blumstein and Schwartz 1990). Lesbians are also less likely to go to gay bars (Wolf 1979; Lowenstein 1980; Peplau and Amaro 1982).

Denmark legalized same-sex marriages in 1989. The first study of homosexual marriages in Denmark shows that lesbians have a higher divorce rate (23 percent compared to 14 percent for male-male marriages). The suggested explanation is that women initiate most of the heterosexual divorces in Denmark (as they also do in the United States), so it is likely that lesbians are following the heterosexual pattern. "Women simply expect different things from marriage than men do," suggests one analyst, "and if they don't get them, they prefer to live alone" (Jones 1997). Frankly, no one yet knows the reason for this pattern. The one that has been suggested is no more profound than to say that women are pickier than men, which certainly sounds like gender stereotyping.

As you see, the differences that have been identified between male and female homosexuals largely parallel differences between male and female heterosexuals. For both homosexuals and heterosexuals, symbolic interactionists would trace these differences to early socialization. Girls are more likely to learn to associate sex with emotional relationships, and, like their heterosexual counterparts, lesbians tend to conform to this basic expectation. Similarly, boys tend to learn to separate sex from affection, to validate their self-images by sexual conquests. Boys are also more likely to see sexual fidelity as a restriction on their independence (Prus and Irini 1988).

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The Social Construction of a Homosexual Identity

By themselves, erotic desires--and sex with members of one's own sex--are not sufficient for people to label themselves homosexual. Many people who experience such desires and who have sex with others of their own sex identify themselves as heterosexual (Laumann et al. 1994; Murray 2000). What is the process, then, by which people come to identify themselves as homosexual?

Researchers have developed several models to account for this process (Troiden 1989). One of the more useful was developed by sociologist Vivienne Cass (1979, 1984). Using symbolic interactionism and based on case studies, Cass found that identifying oneself as homosexual involves six stages:

  1. Identity confusion Finding his or her feelings--or behavior--at odds with heterosexual expectations, the individual feels confused and upset. He or she begins to ask, "Who am I?" and replies, "My behavior (or feelings) could be called homosexual."

  2. Identity comparison The individual begins to feel "different," as though he or she does not belong. He or she makes a tentative commitment to a homosexual identity by saying, "I could be a homosexual."

  3. Identity tolerance The individual turns his or her self-image further away from a heterosexual identity and more toward a homosexual identity. He or she concludes, "I probably am a homosexual."

  4. Identity acceptance The individual moves from tolerating a homosexual self-image to accepting a homosexual identity. After increasing contact with others who define themselves as homosexual, he or she concludes, "I am a homosexual."

  5. Identity pride The individual thinks of homosexuality as good and heterosexuality as bad. (Heterosexuals, for example, represent oppressors.) He or she makes a strong commitment to a homosexual group, which generates a firm sense of group identity. The individual may become politically active and thinks, "I am a homosexual--and proud of it."

  6. Identity synthesis The individual decides that the "them and us" view is false. He or she begins to feel much similarity between himself or herself and some heterosexuals--as well as much dissimilarity between himself and herself and some homosexuals. Although homosexuality remains essential to the individual's identity, it becomes merely one aspect of the self. At this point, the individual may say, "I am a homosexual--but I am also a lot of other things in life."

In line with symbolic interactionism, Cass stresses that the six stages are not fixed. People don't go through them rigidly, marching straight from number one to number six. Rather, the stages are fluid, and not everyone moves through them in the same way. People may stop at any stage. Individuals who have begun to interpret their feelings and behavior in terms of homosexuality, for example, may question that interpretation. They may even move back toward a heterosexual identity. For example, people in the first stage--who are facing the possibility that their behavior could be called homosexual--may stop their same-sex behavior. Or they may continue it--but define their behavior (or their feelings) as situational, and, therefore, not part of their sexual orientation. If they are in the third stage, they may feel positive that they "probably" are homosexual and move eagerly to the fourth stage. Or, if they dislike this probability, they may move away from a homosexual identification.

In metaphorical terms, once one boards the train to a homosexual identity, one can continue the journey, get off at the station marked "Identification Stops Here," or even get off at the station called "Return to Heterosexuality." Not everyone who begins this journey continues it to a final destination called "Homosexuality" (Bell et al 1981). No one, however, has data to tell us what percentage of people who begin this journey complete it.

HETEROSEXUALITY

Researchers have also studied differences between men and women heterosexuals. Let's consider some of their findings, and then go back to the question of nature-nurture once again.

Basic Differences in Men's and Women's Sexuality?

It probably won't surprise you to learn that researchers have found that men tend to initiate sex more frequently than do women. (Sociology is sometimes criticized for proving the obvious, as with this finding. Yet, unless we conduct studies, we don't know if our common observations are true or not. Recall the box on Sociology and Common Sense in Chapter 1. Researchers have also found that men tend to be more "goal oriented," to consider the act of sex, especially orgasm, to be what love making is all about. Women, in contrast, tend to focus more on tenderness and the quality of their emotional relationship (Hite 1976; Halpern and Sherman 1979; Blumstein and Schwartz 1983; Simon and Gagnon 1998).

Are most women, by nature, more oriented to emotional relationships and less oriented to sex than most men? This question brings us to the thorny issue of "nature or nurture" that we have discussed from time to time. (The "essentialist" and "social constructionist" views contrasted earlier largely represent this issue. For an extended example, see the chapter on gender.) Although there are indications that biology underlies men's and women's approaches to sex, we simply don't know if this is the reason. Human sexuality always takes place within culture--and culture overlays our nature, shaping it in some particular direction. If culture allowed the free expression of our sexuality (that is, if we could do anything we wanted sexually with whomever we wanted under any circumstances we wished), we don't know if women would be as sexually oriented as men. I personally doubt it, but I am viewing reality through the lens of culture.

We must also keep in mind that generalizations about human behavior, although true in the abstract, do not apply to individuals. Most men and women apparently have different emphases on sexual intercourse and emotional relationships, but any particular individual may vary from this tendency. A particular man, for example, may be more oriented toward intimacy, a particular woman toward having sex. Generalizations, then, can lead to stereotypes that paint everyone with the same broad brushstroke, causing us to overlook individual differences. Consider this example, which shattered a stereotype that I was holding:

A female graduate student in my department pointed to her jeans and told me that she had first seen them on a salesman who knocked on the door of her apartment. She admired his jeans, and she offered him sex if he would give them to her. He accepted. (In case this leaves you with a mental picture of the salesman leaving her apartment in his underwear, which was one of the pictures it left me with, she gave him the old pair of jeans she was wearing at the time.)

We must be careful, then, when we attempt to generalize about male and female sexuality. Our sexuality is so overridden by culture that we can't imagine what it would be like if it were not.

One of the ways our culture inhibits women's sexuality is through stereotypes. A sexually promiscuous man is often looked up to by his friends. He is seen as a success in sexual matters, a conqueror, a sexual victor. In contrast, a woman who has many sexual partners is not as likely to be viewed in the same way. Questions are likely to be raised about why she is "like that." People may refer to her by negative terms, such as whore. Although this double standard of stereotypes is easing, it persists. If you want to test this stereotype yourself, on a sheet of paper write all the negative terms you can think of for a woman who sleeps around. On another sheet, write all the negative terms you can think of for a man who sleeps around. If you are like most people in our society, your list for women will be longer.

Sexual Arousal and Sexual Fantasies

Based on their interviews, sex researchers first reported that women are not as easily aroused sexually as men (Kinsey et al. 1948, 1953). Later research, based on devices that measure men's and women's physical sexual responses, showed little difference in how men and women become aroused to erotic stimuli (Heiman 1977). Because common experience indicates that men are more easily aroused sexually, we will have to leave this as an open question, one for which we need more research.

A study of sexual fantasies confirms the stereotype that women are more oriented toward emotional relationships and men toward satisfying their physical needs (Ellis and Symons 1990). Apparently men have more sexual fantasies than women, and in their fantasies they have more partners. Men's fantasies also move quickly to sexual acts. In their fantasies, women are more likely to fantasize about men with whom they are having or have had a relationship, and to focus on touching and foreplay.

Frequency of Sex

As you might suppose, one of the aspects of sexual behavior that researchers have investigated is how often people have sexual intercourse. Most studies use inadequate samples, and we can't have confidence in their results. Because the Laumann research is based on a representative sample of the U.S. population ages 18 to 59, we can generalize those findings to the entire U.S. population of this age. Tables HS 2 and HS 3, based on Laumann, allow you to compare the frequency of sexual intercourse for single and married men and women.

As you might expect, Tables HS 2 and HS 3 show that married men and women have more sex than do single men and women who don't have live-in partners. These tables also show that single men and women who have live-in partners have more sex than do married men and women. Interesting. Why do you think this is? The most likely reason is that sex is more frequent in the early stages of a relationship. Sex decreases over time, and cohabitations don't last as long as marriages. Another possible reason is based on the legal standing of the relationship and men being more likely to initiate sex. In a cohabiting relationship--in which women's rights are not established--women may be less secure, and therefore feel less capable of turning down sex when they don't feel like participating.

If you compare men and women in these two tables, a surprising finding shows up. As you might expect, single men who aren't cohabiting have more sex than do single women who aren't cohabiting. But single women who have live-in partners have more sex than do single men who have live-in partners. If you wonder whom the women are having the extra sex with, you're not alone. It is likely that the women are not having additional partners, for that flies in the face of both what we commonly know and what research confirms: that men generally have more sexual partners (Oliver and Hyde 1993).

The answer probably lies in the research itself. All social research is imperfect, even that which uses a representative sample. Although the Laumann sample is outstanding, the people who were interviewed have both faulty memories and various motivations for answering questions. Although I cannot say for certain why more single cohabiting women report having sex two or more times a week than do their male counterparts, I would chalk it up to different memories.

As you can see from Tables HS 2 and HS 3, some married people don't have sex. These are not just the elderly. In some sexless marriages, even young husbands and wives find themselves incompatible and don't have sex. Yet they hold onto the marriage for some reason, often due to religious convictions or for the sake of their children.

Virginity

As you know, not all single people have sex either, and a small percentage remains virgin until they marry. This total may run about 10 percent of U.S. women and 8 percent of U.S. men (Weinberg et al. 1996). Sociologists Susan Sprecher and P. C. Regan (1989) studied college students who were virgins, 192 women and 97 men. The main reason the students gave for abstaining from sex was that they had never felt enough love for someone to give up their virginity. Women expressed more positive feelings about their decision, and they were more apt to say they were proud or satisfied with their virginity. Men, in contrast, were more apt to say they felt embarrassed or even guilty about their virginity.

The reason for this difference in attitude about virginity is likely due to gender roles, to differences about what is expected of men and women. There appears to be a general idea that if a woman is a virgin, she is one by choice, but if a man is a virgin, he has problems of some sort. It seems that a woman can wait for the right person, or for marriage, but a man ought to be seeking sex--and the more sex he has, the more manly he is. In short, being a virgin may challenge a man's masculinity, but not a woman's femininity.

A CONCLUDING NOTE

As I have stressed throughout this text, it is not the purpose of sociology to evaluate human behavior. In fact, sociology has no means to evaluate behavior, to decide that some particular behavior is superior or preferable to another behavior. Sociology's task is to study human behavior-to observe, describe, count, and analyze how behaviors are related to one another. Sociology can determine likely consequences if a group chooses one form of behavior over another, but sociology has no moral basis for determining that one behavior or consequence of behavior is better than another.

It is within this principle that sociologists study human sexuality. Sociologists count (quantitative sociology) and describe (qualitative sociology) human sexual behavior. They also analyze what they count and describe, relating behavior to theory. To sociologists, sexual behavior is like any other human behavior-it is similar to buying a car or making a decision to go to college. People make evaluations about which act is preferable for them. Sociologists study those acts, whether sex or anything else. They attempt to determine how that behavior is related to people's position in society-to their social class, race-ethnicity, gender, age, and so on.

When sociologists take a position on a social issue-such as premarital sex, marital sex, abstinence, age of sexual consent, cohabitation, prostitution, homosexuality, hate crimes, masturbation, sexual fidelity, male-female relations, and so on-they are not doing so as sociologists. They are stepping out of the role of sociologist and speaking as individual citizens. They are taking a stand based on their own values, preferences, and image of a better society, of the way they want things to be. Sociologists are often outspoken, for many feel passionate about their image of an ideal society, of how relations should be between men and women, racial and ethnic groups, heterosexuals and homosexuals, and other groups in society.

Sociology, in contrast, is silent on the shoulds of human behavior. Human sexuality poses no exception to this principle.