It's not what you say, it's how you say it!

ASA ~ There is an old adage that goes: "It's not what you say, it's how you say it." Or "It's not what you say, but the manner in which you say it."
Truth is Beautiful, because it is, what is...it's factual.

When it comes to those we love, although mere truth can be offensive to those who operate in falsehood, truth can also be delivered in an ugly way.

When loved ones receive truth wrapped in a Self-righteous delivery, an offensively accusatory one, or even with a spirit of comdemnation, they are less likely to receive the truth, well.

...and the whole effort of delivering the truth will be counterproductive, causing more resistance to that which is being offered.

When people feel attacked, they raise a defense, and it is always difficult to penetrate the mind, as long as defenses are raised.

Those with Knowledge are not only responsible for delivering the truth, but they are also responsible for the manner in which they deliver it.

If that delivery isn't rooted in love, where people are able to identify it, the deliverer makes his/her own job harder than it should be ~