True Happiness & Self Worth!

Don't rely on someone else for your happiness & self worth. Only u can be responsible 4 that. If u can't love & respect yourself no one else will be able 2 make that happen. Accept who u are-completely; the good & the bad & make changes as YOU see fit-not because u think someone else wants u 2 be different. If u want to live a happy life, tie it 2 a goal, not 2 people or things!

Too often people tend to concern them selves with impressing other before finding their true self. We put on fronts to gain the attention of others. We will alter our personae in order to win over others. We will even lie to get in good with people all while we ignore the maintenance of our own souls & characteristics.
We should always get to know who we are first & then work on our friendships & relationships by simply being ourselves.
If you change and refine you because you see room for self improvement then you will not go through so many failed relationships. It will become easier to find a mate that's compatible with the real you!
If you know yourself then you will know what kind of mate that you really want. When you come across someone who is not your type you will leave them alone thereby not wasting your time nor theirs.

Happiness is not the absence of problems but the ability to deal with them.

"The reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they always see the past better than it was, the present worse than it is, and the future less resolved than it will be" ~Marcel Pagnol